Tuesday, 21 October 2008

a moment with my girl

she has never been a snuggler.
from the day she was born the world has been too interesting a place...
why sit back and cuddle,
when you can lean foward and look?
there is so much to see and it's all so new and interesting

she's her fathers child
there's no rest for the wicked

she's wicked indeed
with her cheeky grin and contagious laugh
no rest, all play
sleep merely to play again
as it should be :P

but there are moments, when she is overcome with exhaustion or frustration and
she gives in, collapsing on me in a heap
asleep
in these moments her head squishes against my chest,
her bottom half twisting away as if in protest.
she stays there for some time

i listen to her breathing
watching her little lips sucking furiously
i daren't move
i don't want to disturb her
who knows when i will have this moment again.

when she wakes she's laughing as if to say
that was funny mummy!
then she starts craning
i can see the question in her eyes
what did i miss?

she is my child and
i am her mother
this is our mummy cuudle
and i savour every moment of it

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71 comments:

MBKimmy said...

mine isn't a sunggler either

ps everytime i get on your site it gives me pop ups ... SUCKS!

Louisa said...

Hey Kimmy, I've just been told about the pop-ups. Had no idea! Just thought it was my stupid computer. When I am back online properly on Friday I am going to try and fix it. Thanks for sticking with me!!

Louisa said...

Hi again, can you let me know if you still get the pop-up when you come to the site. I've removed a widget which I believe was the cause so...guess we'll see!

Dee from Downunder said...

lovely! My first was not a snuggler, but the second is!

Lilly's Life said...

Goregeous post - this will be great for your baby girl to read one day.

Leslie said...

Hi, lovely post. Yes, I get the pop ups too - Optus cards. :)

Joce said...

Never fear Lou, apparently I wasn't a snuggler either as a little thing... but I've made up for it since!! ;)

Bettina said...

I know exactly what you are talking about with the not a snuggler bit.

Lovely.

Robbie S.Redmon, LPC said...

She is beautiful. The snuggles are priceless. You just wait until it's your grandbaby..total bliss

Mrs. M said...

Awww, how sweet! Our middle one is just like that-way too busy and playful to have time for cuddling. I nearly stalk her waiting for her to tire out so that I can swoop her up and snuggle her for a second before she goes to bed.

Your daughter is adorable!

Rachael said...

Holding a sleeping baby? Best. Feeling. EVER! What a wonderful post.

Michelle (hometc) said...

They grow up so fast. I miss my little baby, someone swiped her and left me with a tween!

{Katie Lane} said...

beautiful :)

Jen said...

Wow. What a beautiful little girl. Have a great SITS day!

Wolf said...

beautiful post. visiting from SITS today!

Creative Junkie said...

omgosh, she is a total cutie!

meandtheblueskies said...

What a sweetie pie! Enjoy your SITS day.

Pam said...

What a lovely post. Your daughter is absolutely precious. My younger daughter was not a snuggler either. Sometimes that was hard for me, but you have such a great perspective on it. Enjoy every snuggle!

Joy said...

She's too adorable for words.

Mighty M said...

Beautiful! My son is so not a snuggler either!

Laura said...

Cute baby. How I miss those days.

Brandy said...

She's adorable! Happy SITS day!

Little Miss Baker said...

what a gorgeus baby :) Happy SITS Day to both of you ladies!! xo

Jamie said...

Very cute little girl! :)

Cammie said...

so precious!
Happy SITS day!

cat said...

Oh wow,what a sweet post. Mine wasn't a cuddler, but at age 4 she is! Something to look forward to.

piecemeal people said...

Aww...every time my son and I have a moment like that I wonder what I'm going to do when he's 15 and wants nothing to do with me... :(

Jacky said...

Oh, how sweet. I can't wait to be a mommy someday. I hope I have a cutie like yours! =)

Happy SITS Day!

Kara said...

My first son was just like that, always wanting to explore. It was hard at first because I wanted to cuddle with him. Now that he's 14 and still loves learning new things, I am soooo grateful for that personality trait!

Karen MEG said...

Oh you ARE savouring it, how lovely.

My daughter is and never will be a snuggler. Too, too busy, and she will only give you an occasional hug. I've had maybe 2 kisses from her in almost 5 years!

But when she's exhausted, just wants her Mama, she knows where to go and that's when I can wrap my arms around her, and absorb her in.

The boy, he will be my snuggler for life, I know it.

Lisa said...

AWwwwww! Cute pic!

Brandy said...

that's so sweet. I love it.

Industrioushead said...

What a cute girl! I love that picture and her expression.

Rbarakat said...

Enjoy those moments! It's ok - all babies are different!

Jen said...

Visiting from SITS. You expressed with beautiful words my feelings exactly. The world is just to interesting to take time for a snuggle. Those sleeping moments are priceless. I know all of the books say you are not supposed to rock your baby to sleep, but who cares! They grow up way to fast to be worried about what the books say.

Jodi said...

Sweet post! Those precious days pass so quickly. Treasure every moment, as I'm sure you do!

Happy SITS!

Mammatalk said...

Beautiful, beautiful. Suck those moments up like a sponge!

Lula! said...

What a poignant post...loved reading it.

Tonya said...

So sweet!

Days of Whine & Noses said...

They turn into teenagers faster than you know it!

Visiting from SITS!

Marrdy said...

Enjoy those few baby moments!! They are gone far too soon. You turn around and she'll be asking for keys to the car and money for gas and something to eat....then you get the mommy guilt!

Reluctant Housewife said...

So sweet.

rozzissweetpeas said...

here from SITs...sweet article..hugs rozzi

Jessica said...

My little one no longer snuggles since he stopped nursing. Reading books right before nap and night time are the closest I get. The world's just way, WAY too interesting for sure. I'm hoping that once he gets through this explorer phase he'll want to get cuddly all over again.

Tara said...

too sweet... lucky baby girl...and a lucky mama! ♥

Mimi said...

Oh how I wish to have some of those days back! My beautiful boys are 17 & 13. Wonderful young men, but I do miss my babies.

Becky said...

Too sweet. Don't you just wish you could bottle it up. I am blessed to have twin snugglers :) BUT as they get older it gets less and less and I still go in at night hoping they will wake enough that I "have" to hold them and snuggle them tight. Don't you love it????

Lisa said...

Isn't it the most delicious moment when they snuggle? I miss it sometimes...now the kids are almost as big as me...enjoy this time!!

Kristin said...

She's delicious! My little dude is such a snuggler and I'm dreading the day when that ends!

shortmama said...

Awww I love snuggles!

Lisa M said...

awe, what a cutie! Love her hat! Happy SITS Day!

aforestfrolic said...

That is so sweet! She's a doll too!

Jamie :)

Amanda @ Serenity Now said...

Happy SITS day! :) My first wasn't cuddly at all, but it much better now that she's 3. My 1 year old LOVES to snuggle. :)

Lemonlime said...

Beautiful poem. Brings back memories.

Hillori said...

What a darling little girl!

Brooke said...

She is so beautiful! My son isn't a snuggler either, and he is most def his fathers child.

Michelle said...

Oh what a sweet girl. My Little Miss never wanted to miss a thing either -- and still doesn't! But the joy they have for life, I wouldn't trade it for anything.

Hairline Fracture said...

She is just precious. I would probably get on her nerves because I would try to snuggle her all the time. My daughter wasn't a snuggler as a baby, either, but at six she LOVES to snuggle with me and I eat it up!

Rebecca said...

Such a sweet post. My daughter never snuggles either- and for the same reasons! There's just too much to see, and she doesn't want to miss out! I secretly love when she falls and needs me to comfort her. That's the only way I get my snuggle fix =)

Amy said...

I love cuddly babies and feel sorry for the mothers whose babies are not. how darling and sweet all babies are, though.

Manders said...

I loved those times. They are always on the go but nap and cuddle times are the best.

Pricilla said...

Happy SITS day.
Your baby is adorable!

Michelle said...

AWE that was so sweet!

OceanDreams said...

Happy SITS day. Your baby girl is so sweet! I want a baby girl like yours some day. ;)

Rachel said...

What a cutie!

peapodsquadmom said...

i have triplets. my boys are so snuggly but my little girl...not so much. she cannot be still long enough to snuggle most days. but every once in a while, she'll decide to crawl up in my lap for a bit. i LOVE those special moments. i relish them.

your girl is just adorable, by the way.

KC Mom said...

What a beautiful post for your daughter. I hope you enjoy your day being saucy!

Kim said...

Beautifully written! It sounds just like my daughter, I am so tahnkful my son is a snuggler even at 6!

Hope you had a great SITS Day!

Jeannie Finelli, RN said...

What a precious baby girl!

Vickie said...

That is my favorite thing about being a momma. The snuggles. I miss them.

Your little one is adorable!

Christie - Childhood 101 said...

Soooo cute! Lovely words and memories.